For some people Christmas isn’t the same without someone to share it with. A recent survey revealed that singles often place huge amounts of pressure on themselves to find a partner for Christmas so that they have someone to share the joy with, and to avoid the third degree from their family!  Let me share with you a few secret tips that will increase your chances of finding the one...

Expert Secret Tips To Finding Love    

1. ★Decide what you want. Think of the type of person you want in your life,  be flexible, don’t create their full identify from hair colour, height, mannerisms, personality. Instead, think about the role you would like this person to play in your life.
   

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3. ★Socialize! Your new love is not going to come knocking on your door! Make the most of the festive season to meet new people, keep busy but not too busy to date.
   

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5. ★Mini Make over. Revamp your image, get the advice from friends or hire a stylist. A little make over in clothes, hair and a fake tan can make the world of difference!
   

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7. ★Radiate Energy. If you smile and radiate energy you will be seen as a keeper. Plan fun things to do, think outside the square, try kayaking in the harbour, rock climbing or head off to the driving range.  Keep light on subject, and steer clear of emotional involvement when newly dating, it is a huge turn off! Never talk kids on the first date!
   

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9. ★Get fit and Feel great! Beat the bulge of the festive season.  To counter all the excess kilo-joules exercise for a minimum of 30 minutes a day, as a bonus the natural endorphins released will leave you feeling amazing!
   

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11. ★Let friends know you are single! Have your friends introduce you to single friends that may be compatible to you, blind dates can
    

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13. ★Be proactive.  If your friends aren’t much help hire a professional matchmaker. The festive season is the perfect time to meet that someone special and most people are out there looking!
    

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15. ★Accept invitations! This is not the time to stay at home watching TV, no not an option! Get out there socialize and mingle with other singles!
    

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17. ★Be Positive and open minded.  Just like Forest Gump would say “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your going to get”. So true when it comes to romance, how many times have you fallen for someone completely unexpectedly just by being open, having no expectations and simply enjoying life! Take off that judgmental hat of yours, no one is perfect including you!
    

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19. ★Don’t Rush!  There is nothing more unappealing than a person placing a deadline on finding love. If you relax, stay proactive, positive and open it will happen naturally often faster than you realize.
    

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Written by Samantha Jayne, Australia’s Leading Executive Matchmaker and Director of Blue Label Life - Matchmaking for Busy professionals. 

To book your complimentary consultation or for more information,  call on 1300 553 510 or visit  www.bluelabellife.com.au

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