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How Much Is Criticism Costing You?
16 April 2008
Criticism can be a costly business mainly because as humans we're
rarely open to it and we tend to take it personally! So if you're
about dish out a serving of the Big C make sure you have a smart plan
in place...
Little Pointers That Will Save Your Popularity
It's all well and good being open and honest and letting people know
what you think, but it's equally as important to ensure that your
criticism is constructive so that you aren't seen as judgemental or
overly negative.
Follow these simple tips to make sure your criticism is more than a personal ego boost: -
1. Avoid Unnecessary Criticism
It's important to make sure you recognise the good things that people
do instead of focussing purely on their faults. Unnecessary
criticism is simply a personal ego boost that does nothing other than
give the criticiser a false sense of 'being a better person'.
Avoid criticising where possible.
2. Offer Encouragement
If you need to criticise make sure it's sincere and that you offer
suggestions for improvement as well as encouragement and recognition
for the good things that have been done. By encouraging the good
qualities in someone they will be more receptive to your comments and
ideas.
3. Avoid Moralising
When people need correcting we shouldn't avoid doing it, however it's
important to be professional at all times. For example, if you
point out a mistake avoid adding any unnecessary judgements about how
bad the person is to do it - this will only make them defensive and
less willing to act on your suggestions.
Book
your complimentary 'Find
Your Focus' coaching session now to find out more.
Written by Faye
Hollands
© 2007-2008 Outshine Consulting Pty Ltd, all rights reserved.
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