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Lacking Motivation To Lose Weight Or Exercise?

Have you ever joined a gym and then lost the motivation to go? Or started a diet and given up after only a few days? If so, you're in the majority. However, with 49% of Australian's overweight and unfit these are statistics you can't afford to ignore.

The 3 Reasons Why People Don't Stick To Their Exercise & Weight Loss Goals

1. You're Not Focusing On The Pain

To get internal motivation and achieve the results you want you need to remember what the cost is to your life if you don't lose weight or get fit. Stop thinking about how much better you'll look on the beach, and instead ask yourself what it will cost you (both short term and long term) not to change these unhelpful habits or patterns of behavior? Obesity, Heart Attack, Relationships Issues, Unhappiness, Lack of Confidence. That'll get you going!

2. You Accidentally Set 'Away From' Goals

Most people set themselves unspecific goals that are 'moving away' from what they want - for example 'I don't want to be fat'. That's OK to get you started, but as soon as you lose a little bit of weight, your motivation drops, and you start to slack off again. 'Away from' goals focus your mind on what you don't want─and help you get more of it. To enjoy long-lasting results you need compelling, specific and time-bound goals that pull you 'Towards' the things you want.

3. You Have Mixed 'Pain vs Pleasure' Associations

Do you look forward to exercising & losing weight, or do you associate these 'tasks' with pain? People will do more to avoid pain than they will to find pleasure. So if you have mixed associations, part of you will want to workout, but another stronger part will resist it. You won't be able to succeed long term, and you'll just give up. Willpower is NOT the answer. You need to change these associations so that you're effortlessly pulled to the gym and healthy foods, without needing will power at all.

Let me know how motivation is a challenge for you - post a comment on our blog.

Have a fabulous week!

Faye

Faye Hollands

Director - Outshine Consulting

Phone: +61 2 9571 1684

fayehollands@outshineconsulting.com